It's a fling thing!

Youth nowadays knows about this one for sure.
Especially those who go to the clubs and do dirty stuffs. *wink

I went to the salon awhile ago. And while waiting, I came across to read one of the magazines in the racks. I forgot who the author is, but this article is about having a fling, fuck buddies, or a kissing friend or whatever you want to call it. It says there that "A fling is like a chocolate, you like it but you don't need it." I agreed and find it interesting so I read the whole article.

Here are some "NEVER-to-do if you happened to have a fling"
In my case, it is a him.
Gets?

Never ask question.
You are not supposed to know him better. He is what he gives, shows and tells you.
That's it. Period.

Never demand anything.
You take only the cards he lays on the table, which to be honest, aren't a lot. Don't expect that you'll get the whole deck. You don't own it, in the first place.

Never check up on him.
You are not the girlfriend who knows her guy's daily itinerary, from the time he takes his coffee down to the minute he begins snoring. He has his own schedule and he expects to have your own-without having to compare notes.

Never get to know him, his family, or his friends.
He wants this clear: you are not part of his world. The only world you have with him is within the confines of his car, his room and his bedsheets.

Never make him part of your life too.
Live your life like he doesn't even exist. Most likely he's doing the same. It's there when it's there. And you'll never know when it will strike or come back.

Never give your all.
You only give as much as he does; and if you can help it, even less.

Never need him.
Need alcohol more for it just cause you a day or less to suffer.
Needing him is like having a hangover 24/7. Consider him a bonus treat. Always remember why you're with him: Have fun. Maybe feel good about yourself. He's an escape, not an essential.

Never expect anything.
Not even something lame, like a text reply. Male shares another nugget of wisdom, "Don't expect a transition to a real relationship. It is what it is."

And lastly,
Never say "I love You".
There's a reason why he's not saying those words, it is because he doesn't love you.
This is the ultimate risk you take when going for a fling, you can fall in love. And how will the relationship ever work in favor if it has been set on one key rule since day one: "Never fall in love." That's why fling is so irresistable. They challenge what you know and feel to be in your limits.

But for me, there's also a good advantage and good thing in having a fling. It let us know the real scenario, that in life. Everyone is really in need to have fun. It may not sounds good for others, but nowadays, it is true.
It also brings us the reality that real relationship does not come just in a snap.
We need to build it level by level in the right person, in the right time and in the right way.


Coool!
Do I sound like a guro? LOL!

Sa lahat ng nakairingan ko

May nakita na naman akong blog na about sakin, ofcourse negative na naman yon. Pero imbes na magalit, maasar, mapikon o kung ano pa ang maramdaman ko. Eh natawa na lang ako. Dun ko napatunayan na hindi na ko katulad dati nor katulad nila/niya na mababaw ang pag-iisip at makitid ang utak para palakihin pa yung ganung issue. Sawa na rin kasi ako sa ganon.

Dun ko rin napagtanto na napatawad ko na sila pati ang sarili ko.
Alam ko may mali rin ako. Isa na dun yung patulan sila.
Marami rin akong mga nagawa at nasabi na nasaktan sila kaya naging ganon sila sakin. Tanggap ko yon. Yung mga blog ko na kahit papano eh nakapukaw ng atensyon nila, at kahit kaunti eh naasar o napikon sila, alam ko mali yon. Alam kong tama naman ang dahilan ko kung bakit ko ginawa yon--Gusto ko lang pagtanggol yung sarili ko, ngunit, namali ako ng paraan kung paano.

Easter Sunday ngayon. At malapit na rin akong magdebut. *Yeheey!! :))
Ayokong tumuntong ako sa legal na edad na may bitbit bitbit na ganitong pakiramdam, sama ng loob sa kahit na sino mang tao baga. Ayaw kong umabot ako ng bente na ganito pa rin ang pag-iisip ko. Gusto ko magmature, at sisimulan ko na yon ngayon. Well actually noon pa. Pinagdadasal ko nga kaluluwa niyo eh. *Totoo un. :)

Kaya, sa lahat ng nakaaway, nakariingan, nakaargumento, naasar at napikon ko ngayong taon oh nung mga nakalipas pa. Patawad po. :) Patawad sa mga nagawa ko na mali, alam ko may nasaktan rin ako. Pero hindi porke't humihingi ako ng tawad eh binabawi ko na lahat ng sinabi ko. Hindi. Totoo lahat yon. Kung ano man ang nabasa niyo dito sa Multiply blog at Blogspot ko. Totoo yon. Mali lang talaga yung paraan ng pagkakasabi kasi nakasakit ako.

At sa mga taong hindi ko naman kilala na nagagalit sa akin,
Aba'y ewan ko sainyo.
Hindi ko naman kayo kilala pero dahil sa mga posts ng kaibigan niyo at mga chismis na pinapakalat nila eh nagkaroon na rin kayo ng galit sakin. Ang masasabi ko lang sainyo eh isang malaking "Haaaayyyyyyyyyyyyyysssssssssssssss". =))

Kung darating man yung panahon na makasalubong ko yung isa man sainyo, ngingitian ko kayo ng bonggangbongga. Walang halong kaplastikan at walang halong biro. Nasasainyo na lang yon kung ngingiti kayo ng totoo pabalik.

At kung mayron man na lumabas ulit na shit blog about sa akin oh kahit kung ano ano pa.
Tatawanan ko na lang yon. Wala rin naman kayong niloloko kung di sarili niyo.
Hintayin ko na lang na mapagod at kainin kayo ng lupa dahil sa pagkainsecure niyo.
Harsh man ang dating niyan. Sincere naman ako.

Sa gumawa ng posers account ko dito sa Multiply, pati na rin sa mga sumoporta don.
Maraming Salamat! =) Napatawa niyo ko.
Wag kayong mag-alala napatawad ko na rin kayo. :)
Sana next time website naman.

Sa mga tao na walang ibang masabi sa akin kung di "PANGET AKO"
Wag na kayo magpagod. Alam ko naman yon.
Sinasabi rin sakin ni mama na pangit ako kaya sanay na ko. HAHAHAH! :))
Ako kaya si SuperBoink. :)

Alam naman natin kung ano ano ang mali na nagawa natin at pagkukulang sa pagkontrol sa sarili eh. Pinakawalan ko na lahat ng galit at asar ko sainyo. Ayaw ko mabuhay ng ganon.
Nasasainyo na lang rin kung anong gagawin niyo.

Mabuhay tayong Lahat! =)

'Kay-Effff_Zzzzzzzzzz

A day with Lolo Det in SM Marilao. This is the first Saturday since he went back here in the country. We shopped furnitures for his house. Micko and I enjoyed laying in some of the sofas and bed at "Our Home" botique.

Lolo wants to purchase a bed worth P51,900. WOAAAH! (bigeyes) Yaamaan ni padir. Hahahha! ;))
We also went at SM Department Store, namili ng mga gamit sa bahay. Sa banyo to be exact. Ginawa naming P1,500 ung purchase para we have a free basket. Promo raw yun eh. :)

Nakakatawa si Micko, lahat na kasi ata nung toys dun kinuha niya at prinisinta sa mommy niya na bilin para maging P1,500 ung purhcase namin. Hahahah. My cousin is a retard indeed. IKR! :)))

Then after that. Syempre pagod kami. At asusual gutom ako. :)
So we went sa KFC.
Umorder kami ng:
1 Summer bucket meal
3 Mushroom Soup
1 order of Chicken Fillet
8 extra rice
3 Large drinks
1 Large Fries

Hmmmm*yumyum!!*
7 kaming kumain non. :) Ang sayaaa! :))
Woot! Nagpicture picture ng konti before umuwi. Kaya lang pangit lang ung cam. Kasi camphone lang. :) Sensyaaa.

Ang saya pa rin :p
Sana lagi kami ilibre ni Lolo.
Tas binili pa ko ni mama ng party popper para sa debut ko.
Tas tomorrow I'm gonna dye my hair again to red.
Yeeehhhheeeyyy!


April 12, 2009 Fun Fun Fun! :))

Holy Week minus .0005 boredom

Holy Week.
It's Black Saturday na!
It's good to know that my Holy Week is not as boring like last year. :)
Wooott! Syempre for some reasons I got bored rin. But hindi na masyado.

Unlike last year, Lolo came back here in the Philippines. Meaning, there are people who come over here now and then to take a visit, para makita siya. Then, meron ding mga chocolates na mangangata pag wala ka ng magawa. :)) LOL Much! :p

Unlike last year, we have our internet connection now. So I am not forced to sit and watch hoyly shows on TV. All I have to do is sit here at the front of my desktop and go surfin' the net as long as I want. Technology was indeed a great escape to boredom. :))

Well, don't think naman na hindi ako nagpakabait this Holy Week.
Every night, I find some time to reflect and talk to God. Well, usual thing naman sakin yon eh. Kaya for me, Holy Week is just an ordinary day. Kaya nakakainis yung iba na pag Holy Week lang talaga nagdadasal at naglalaan ng oras sa Diyos. Tss. Screw them! Mga pakitang tao. Tsskkk!

So yown. I need to sleep now.
But maybe mayamaya na, hindi pa talaga kasi ako inaantok.
Mamaya punta kami SM with Lolo, woot! Sana magshopping. Hahahah.
Then punta sa venue ng Debut, bibigay yung pictures for my tarp.

I think that the following week will be the most hectic week eh.
Hectic ang sched ko. I feel like I'm a star. LOL!
Sunday, I have a wedding to attend on.
Monday, I have to visit one of my ninang to give them their copy of invitation.
Tuesday, Hmmm. Well I still don't have any plans right now for this day.
Wednesday, me and my mom will go and pick up my gowns.
Thursday-Friday is my Daaayyy!
Saturday will be my rest day.

Ohaaa! A very busy week! :)
Sana hindi ulit mastressed. Ang hirap kasi eh pag ganon. :p
It feels like you're torturing your ownself. You worry too much.
Yung super occupied yung pag-iisip mo. Duuuh! Nakaksuffocate :p

Naalala ko lang.
This is my 1st Holy Week without my dad. :(
Sad. It's been 2 days since I talked to him.
Ano na kaya ngyare don? May holy week rin kaya dun sa Dubai?
Baka naman kinain na ng camel yung papa ko. LOL! Joke langg! :p
Miss you papa :)


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"For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten son,
that whose so ever believes in Him shall not perish and will have an eternal life.."
John 3:16

Francis M.'s Legacy

I can't really find a reason why did God let this happened to Francis M. He was a good man, a good artist, a good friend, a good father and indeed a good citizen. But as the same story of life goes. God knows everything that it's good for all His child. And He has His own reasons.

The King of Rap finally met his Master. He died due to Leukemia, (cancer of the blood).
These are some of his pictures during his battle.
To view his pictures click this>> http://bittercheska.multiply.com/photos/album/310
< ~~, I am really not a fan of Francis M., I am just really amazed of his story. He was a good man, as I've heard in his friend's interview, he was the best father for his children and a good man for his nation.

His songs was surely be immortalized by our generation and for the upcoming generations too. Reading his posts, I can say that he had lived his life to the fullest. He had lived his life good and productive.

He serves his country well.
Enlightened his countrymen tru his songs.
Show how life is beautiful tru his photographs.


He is indeed a legacy.
A legacy for Filipinos to be proud of.


Thank You Francis. :)
Thank You for sharing your life to us,
for your musics and for your photographs.
Your memories will surely be treasured and remain in our hearts.


Got these pictures from:
http://francismagalona.multiply.com/
http://happybattle.multiply.com/


This post was sorta' late.
Sorry. :)

Mixed Emotions.

I don't know how will I explain this feeling. I don't know if I am stressed, disappointed or somewhat anxious. I really don't know. :'(
6 days to go before my big day. And I am 30% excited, 50% disappointed and 20% anxious?
Excited coz it is my 18th birthday.
Disappointed because most of my friends, classmates to be exact will not make it. :'(
Sad. *sobs* There is too much conflict. First yung place. Second yung date.. :'(

Hayst! Again, Disappointed because, I really put an effort on preparing for this for them. My mom even said that, I should have plan this well for my classmates. But now, some of them will not come for some reasons. I can't help to be like this, I'm sorry. ='(
I really want to celebrate this event with you guys. ;'((

Si Janella di rin aabot. Siya pa naman MC ko.
Waaaahhh... :'(( I was thinking na si Louise na lang sana yung papalit ko for MC, but hindi rin pala siya makakarating. :'(( Awww.
Until now, wala pa ko mahanap na partner ni Ads. :'((
Anubeyen! Stressed na ko. Sayang beauty. (--.
Wala na atang nacomplete sa kahit anong set ng 18 ko. :[
Sana magawan parin ng paraan. SANA.
Pilitin niyo pa rin makapunta.


I'm looking forward also sa mga HS friends ko.
Hope they'll make it. :/


But yeah, I understand everything naman. :'( Pero... :'((
NAKAKAPAGTAMPO. :((
Well, ganon talaga eh. For those who'll come. Thank you so much. :'(
Basta let's enjoy na lang. =/

Haruki Murakami

"If you only read the books that everyone else is reading, you can only think what everyone else is thinking."
— Haruki Murakami

"But who can say what's best? That's why you need to grab whatever chance you have of happiness where you find it, and not worry about other people too much. My experience tells me that we get no more than two or three such chances in a life time, and if we let them go, we regret it for the rest of our lives."
— Haruki Murakami (Norwegian Wood)

"Anyone who falls in love is searching for the missing pieces of themselves. So anyone who's in love gets sad when they think of their lover. It's like stepping back inside a room you have fond memories of, one you haven't seen in a long time."
— Haruki Murakami

"Here's what I think, Mr. Wind-Up Bird," said May Kasahara. "Everybody's born with some different thing at the core of their existence. And that thing, whatever it is, becomes like a heat source that runs each person from the inside. I have one too, of course. Like everybody else. But sometimes it gets out of hand. It swells or shrinks inside me, and it shakes me up. What I'd really like to do is find a way to communicate that feeling to another person. But I can't seem to do it. They just don't get it. Of course, the problem could be that I'm not explaining it very well, but I think it's because they're not listening very well. They pretend to be listening, but they're not, really. So I get worked up sometimes, and I do some crazy things."
— Haruki Murakami (The Wind-up Bird Chronicle)

"And it came to me then. That we were wonderful traveling companions but in the end no more than lonely lumps of metal in their own separate orbits. From far off they look like beautiful shooting stars, but in reality they're nothing more than prisons, where each of us is locked up alone, going nowhere. When the orbits of these two satellites of ours happened to cross paths, we could be together. Maybe even open our hearts to each other. But that was only for the briefest moment. In the next instant we'd be in absolute solitude. Until we burned up and became nothing."
— Haruki Murakami (Sputnik Sweetheart)

"Sometimes fate is like a small sandstorm that keeps changing directions. You change direction but the sandstorm chases you. You turn again, but the storm adjusts. Over and over you play this out, like some ominous dance with death just before dawn. Why? Because this storm isn't something that blew in from far away, something that has nothing to do with you. This storm is you. Something inside of you. So all you can do is give in to it, step right inside the storm, closing your eyes and plugging up your ears so the sand doesn't get in, and walk through it, step by step. There's no sun there, no moon, no direction, no sense of time. Just fine white sand swirling up into the sky like pulverized bones. That's the kind of sandstorm you need to imagine.

An you really will have to make it through that violent, metaphysical, symbolic storm. No matter how metaphysical or symbolic it might be, make no mistake about it: it will cut through flesh like a thousand razor blades. People will bleed there, and you will bleed too. Hot, red blood. You'll catch that blood in your hands, your own blood and the blood of others.

And once the storm is over you won't remember how you made it through, how you managed to survive. You won't even be sure, in fact, whether the storm is really over. But one thing is certain. When you come out of the storm you won't be the same person who walked in. That's what this storm's all about."
— Haruki Murakami (Kafka on the Shore)

"Don't feel sorry for yourself. Only assholes do that."
— Haruki Murakami (Norwegian Wood)

"But even so, every now and then I would feel a violent stab of loneliness. The very water I drink, the very air I breathe, would feel like long, sharp needles. The pages of a book in my hands would take on the threatening metallic gleam of razor blades. I could hear the roots of loneliness creeping through me when the world was hushed at four o'clock in the morning."
— Haruki Murakami (The Wind-up Bird Chronicle) emo!

"What do you think? I'm not a starfish or a pepper tree. I'm a living, breathing human being. Of course I've been in love."
— Haruki Murakami (Kafka on the Shore)

"It's hard to tell the difference between sea and sky, between voyager and sea. Between reality and the workings of the heart."
— Haruki Murakami

"For both of us, it had simply been too enormous an experience. We shared it by not talking about it. Does this make any sense?"
— Haruki Murakami (Wind-Up Bird Chronicle)

"Sometimes when I look at you, I feel I'm gazing at a distant star.
It's dazzling, but the light is from tens of thousands of years ago.
Maybe the star doesn't even exist any more. Yet sometimes that light seems more real to me than anything."
— Haruki Murakami



http://www.goodreads.com/author/quotes/3354.Haruki_Murakami


Thanks Valia Mae~